I would like to clarify something from my previous post: I am not advocating that men adopt an abundance mentality. Least of all Christian men.
Rather, I was trying to explain that there was a similarity between the “Abundance Mentality” and a mindset which doesn’t care about how women view you.
Deep Strength explores much of what is wrong with the Abundance Mentality, at least as it concerns Christians, here.
As a prescriptive matter, I think men need to do a couple of things. Here are just a few:
- Stop caring what women think of you, especially women you might be interested in.
- Look for women who will be a good fit for you.
- Create an atmosphere of command (a concept worth exploring more later)
- Build yourself up- physically, mentally, economically and spiritually
Feel free to disagree or add your own thoughts as you see fit.