(Warning: This blog post will contain some less than savory language. For those of a prudish nature, please skip past.)
Cane Caldo’s last few posts, starting with There are no Ugly Truths, have all been about what women want. What do women want, in Cane’s view?
Women want dick, and that is AWESOME, because we have them. Not only is it awesome, but it’s good–physically, spiritually, emotionally, and mentally. To whatever extent a woman does not want dick, she is weak and infirm in one of those categories. If you think, “Mothers/sisters/daughters/grandma don’t.”: You’re lying to yourself. Women’s desire for dick is so good that God doesn’t say the creation of man is good until God makes someone who wants Adam’s dick–a woman.
Women thirst after masculinity, and will do whatever it takes to get it, regardless of the cost or who must ultimately pay it.
When Cane argues that women want dick (I prefer the term cock myself if we are going to resort to the vulgar), he is arguing that women are drawn to the most obvious expression of Masculine Power. After all, what better expression of masculinity is there than something which is often (in polite circles) referred to as one’s manhood? In a roundabout way Cane is talking about the importance of a man’s Frame as part of his expression of masculinity, through the medium of his dick/cock/penis/manhood and the female desire for it. Frame is everything when it comes it Masculine Power; without the right Frame a man cannot be truly attractive to women.
The goal is simple: bring the woman into your Frame. When a woman expresses a desire for your manhood, she is expressing a desire to feel or taste or be filled with your masculinity. If a woman desires of your masculinity, then you have the Power in the relationship. You are in control, in command. That mastery is what every man should strive towards, especially a husband. Think of it this way: you have the tools to create desire in your woman. Use it, and you will never have to worry about storming the beach ever again. As Cane puts it:
If you approach the problem of having sex with your wife from the point of view that you have to extract sex from behind her gates, then you’ve already lost. There is no latent boner hidden in her, so stop trying to get it up. You have the sex, and she has to come to you to get it. You will lead. She will follow.
Remember, Women want It, and You have It.